問候大家。我們是大角星理事會，很高興能與你們所有人連結。
我們非常高興能與你們深入探討我們的教導。我們提供了四大支柱的教導，第一支柱是『接納』，第二支柱是『寬恕』。第三支柱則是『慈悲』，而我們希望進一步擴展我們所指的慈悲究竟為何。慈悲並不意味著可憐任何人，也不意味著加入某人的自怨自艾、悲傷或受害者情結中。慈悲意味著去理解某件事為何會以那樣的方式發生，並認出其中存在的傷害感受、以及需要被療癒處理的不適（即所謂的負面）情緒，同時意識到這並非任何人真正想經歷的事。
你可以對自己感到慈悲——為了自己讓自己陷入某種境地，或讓自己與某人建立關係。你可以對自己感到慈悲——為了自己選擇出生在一個自己成為異類、黑羊、承擔家庭中所有過錯責任的家庭。當你對自己展現慈悲時，你同樣不需要陷入任何自怨自艾中。相反地，你可以認出：你在這一世為自己做出這些選擇，是因為你想挑戰自己，而且歸根究底，你想向自己證明你究竟有多麼強大與堅韌。你可以在保有這個企圖心的同時，依然對自己保持慈悲。
對自己慈悲，與責備自己或對自己過於苛刻正好相反——許多人都經歷過自責與嚴苛，而你很清楚自己不想再有那種體驗，因為你已經歷過了。對他人的慈悲，則與審判和譴責正好相反。那是去意識到：那個人之所以是現在的樣子、之所以做了那些事，都是有原因的。原因可能是你在靈魂層面上透過靈魂契約請求他們這麼做的；也可能是他們曾在生命中被他人嚴重傷害過，而現在正將其宣洩在你的身上，甚至沒有意識到自己正在這麼做。
某人可能會對你施加虐待，是因為他們不知道其他相處方式，這可能是因為從未有人教過他們其他方式，他們也從未看過任何其他方式的榜樣。因此，慈悲與理解是相輔相成的。你必須意識到，每個人的核心本質都是無條件的愛；當他們沒有展現出愛、沒有以此方式言行時，是因為他們的生活中某些環節出了問題。他們沒有被好好對待過。他們受過傷。他們遭受過虐待。他們從未被無條件地愛過。
所有這些因素，都會導致一個人以傷害他人的方式表現出來。當你意識到這一點時，你就可以對那個人產生慈悲，而無需加入他們較低頻率的狀態。你不需要與他們對抗，也不需要審判他們。你絕對不需要譴責他們，更不需要以任何方式加入他們。你不需要選擇像他們那樣生活，但你依然可以對他們保持慈悲——即使他們正做出一個以你目前的靈性進化程度絕對不會做出的選擇。
因此，慈悲極為重要。這就像在說：『我愛你，我也理解你的立場以及你是如何變成今天這個樣子的，但我不會在那樣的狀態中與你同行。相反地，我想邀請你加入我所找到的這個更高頻率的界域。』因此，你可以對另一個人保持慈悲，同時不必將他們一筆勾銷或從你的生活中徹底摒除。你依然可以歡迎他們加入你為自己選擇的舒適空間。而這正是讓慈悲成為大角星人教導中極其重要的第三支柱的原因。
我們是大角星理事會，我們非常享受與你們的連結。
The Third Pillar in the Teachings of the Arcturians ∞The 9D Arcturian Council
“Greetings. We are The Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We are very happy to go more in depth with you into our teachings. We offer teachings of the four pillars, the first pillar being acceptance and the second pillar being forgiveness. The third pillar is compassion, and we would like to expand on what we mean by compassion. Compassion doesn’t mean feeling sorry for anyone, and it doesn’t mean joining someone in their self-pity, or sorrow, or victimhood. Compassion means understanding how something could have happened in the way that it did and recognizing that there are hurt feelings, that there are unpleasant so-called negative emotions to be processed, and realizing that it is not something that anyone really wants to go through.
You can have compassion for yourself for getting yourself into a situation, or for getting yourself into a relationship with a person. You can have compassion for yourself for choosing to be born into a family where you would be the odd one out, the black sheep, the one who receives all the blame for everything that goes wrong in the family. And when you are having compassion for yourself, you also do not have to get into any sort of self-pity. You can recognize instead that you made the choices that you made for yourself in this lifetime because you wanted to challenge yourself, and because ultimately you wanted to show yourself just how powerful and strong you really are. You can have that agenda while still being compassionate towards yourself.
Being compassionate towards yourself is the opposite of beating up on yourself, or being too hard on yourself, which many people also experience, and you know you don’t want to have that experience because you’ve had it. Compassion for others is the opposite of judgment and condemnation. It’s realizing that the person is the way that they are and have done the things that they have done for a reason. The reason could be that you asked them to at the soul level with a soul contract. It could be the case that they were hurt very badly by people in their lives, and now they’re taking it out on you without even realizing that they are doing so.
Someone may be abusive towards you because they don’t know any other way to be, and that could be, because no one has ever taught them any other way to be, and they’ve never seen an example of any other way to be. So, compassion and understanding go hand in hand. You must realize that everyone is unconditional love at the core of who they are, and when they are not being that, and acting and speaking along those lines, it’s because something has gone wrong for them in their life. They have not been treated well. They have been hurt. They have been abused. They have never been loved unconditionally.
All of these factors play into a person acting out in hurtful ways towards others, and when you realize that, you can have compassion for a person without joining them in their lower vibrational state. You don’t have to fight them, and you don’t have to judge them. You certainly don’t have to condemn them, and you don’t have to join them in any way. You don’t have to choose to live the way that they are living, and you can still have compassion for them, even though they are making a choice that you would never make from where you are today in your spiritual evolution.
So, compassion is huge. It is like saying, ‘I love you, and I understand where you are coming from and how you got to be where you are, but I’m not going to join you there. Instead, I’m going to invite you to join me in this higher vibrational realm that I have found.’ So, you can have compassion for another person without writing them off and eliminating them from your life. You can still welcome them to join you in the good-feeling space that you have chosen for yourself. And that is what makes compassion the third and very important pillar in the teachings of the Arcturians.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
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