傳導：安·奧伯格（Ann Albers）｜ 來源
我親愛的朋友，我們非常深愛你們，
你們名單上的每個人都有一顆充滿關懷的心、一個渴望尋求解決方案的大腦，以及一個熱愛為他人服務的靈魂。我們指的不是自我犧牲，也不是那種需要你放下自己內心的服務，而是那種讓你們充滿喜悅、關懷與光芒的光芒成為他人靈感與指引的服務。
透過你對他人的堅定信任，你可以幫助點燃他們自己的信心。
透過你的無條件之愛，你可以啟發他們尋找更多愛自己的方法。
透過你願意體驗並探索帶給你喜悅之事的意願，你等於默許了他們也可以這麼做。
當你分享在你自己的生活中管用的方法時，你展示了可能也適用於他們生活中的各種選擇。
每當你允許自己快樂、健康、有所連結或豐盛時，你就是所有可能性的模範。你成了一個靈感來源。當你分享在你自身生活中奏效的事物時，你是在邀請他人嘗試你的方法或心態，看看什麼也適合他們的生活。當你邀請你的天使協助而協助隨之到來時，你便證明了我們的存在與我們對你們的關心。
對你們所有——親愛的敏感靈魂——來說，最難的事莫過於想要幫助一個不想要你幫助的人，或者不想以你能夠真誠提供的方式接受幫助的人。
你看到某人正受肉體挑戰所苦，並且知道某種飲食、運動或幾乎肯定能幫助他們的療癒專家，但他們卻對這些毫無興趣。
你看着某人在自己的生活中掙扎，你知道透過顯化、祈禱或呼求天使，你的生活變得多麼輕鬆，但他們對這些毫無興趣。
你認為某人夠能幹、堅強或聰明，可以做到他們想做的事，但你說什麼都無法說服他們相信自己的能力。
你看到某人陷入自我實現的負面循環中掙扎。你試圖給他們精神喊話、例子、方法、書籍、療癒師，但他們堅信生活或其他人才是問題所在。
你們許多人都曾遇到這樣的情況：儘管你懷著最好的助人心意、擁有智慧、經驗或理解，但對方卻對你所能提供的一切毫無興趣。當你懷著最好的意圖，堅持自己有解決他們挑戰的答案時，你可能曾遭遇拒絕、嘲笑，甚至是憤怒。
也許你確實有答案。
但親愛的朋友們，如果有人不想要你所提供的東西，你必須接受他們有自己的道路、自己的功課、自己的選擇以及他們自己的創造。他們會以自己想要的方式學習。你可以親切地邀請他們嘗試你的心態、方法、從業者、書籍等，但請將其視為一場「邀請」而已。帶著愛去說話。帶著對他們旅程的尊重去說話。「我不知道這是否能引起你的共鳴，但當我遇到這個挑戰時，這對我有幫助。如果你想要更多資訊，我很樂意幫忙。」從你自己的心出發去表達，但把這份提供變成一個邀請——而不是一場關於他們該怎麼做的宣告。
地球上沒有任何一個人，在未經請求的情況下會喜歡被告訴該怎麼做 :) 但如果你們的建議是帶著愛意提出的，多數人都願意傾聽。他們願意拿這些建議與自己的感受作衡量，看看是否能與自己產生共鳴。
其他人也是如此。如果你所提供的東西無法與一個人的信念、意願或價值感產生共鳴，那麼無論你試圖多麼具有說服力，它對他們都不會起作用。他們必須相信某個做法是行得通的。他們必須相信有愛他們的天使，或者至少願意給我們一個機會去驗證，才會接受我們的禮物。在他們放棄受害者心態之前，他們必須相信自己對生活有一定的掌控權，甚至必須想要相信這一點。如果你試圖在他們準備好擁抱之前，強迫他們採納某些方法、心態或做法，那麼即使是這些點子中最好的，也發揮不了作用。
如果你想幫助那些拒絕你建議的人，那就去愛他們。愛他們本來的樣子。
你或許不喜歡有人只會抱怨卻什麼也不做。沒關係。你可以不用聽。像愛一個感到無力的小孩那樣去愛他們。不要把他們的抱怨看得太嚴肅。當你打從心底想這麼做時，給他們煮碗熱湯來安慰他們；當你不想這麼做時，就把注意力移開，或者告訴他們你不知道該說什麼。你可能會對某個有生理問題卻什麼也不做去改變的人感到挫折。無論如何，去愛他們吧。他們可能感到恐懼。也許沒有人幫他們建立起面對改變的信心。你可以溫柔地對待他們。也許你可以根據他們的飲食限制為他們做些點心。如果他們需要運動，如果他們願意，你可以陪他們散步；如果不願意，就讓他們坐著。
親愛的朋友們，甚至當談到我們時，許多曾對人類感到失望的人也期望我們做出同樣的反應。因此，我們在他們生活中的影響力有限。有些人不相信我們的愛。有些人想要向自己證明他們能靠自己達成結果。有些人永遠不會承認，但他們覺得自己不配得到幫助。有些人是你們所說的「控制狂」，而這也沒關係。有些人正在活出一個童年時期便開始的實相——「當時沒有人幫忙，現在也沒有人會幫忙」。他們已經將自己與「不被愛」這件事深深綁定，以至於很難相信任何人會或能夠像我們一樣愛他們。
在所有這些情況下，逼迫這些人與我們合作並不是一種愛。以他們能夠接收的方式去愛他們才是。如果你無法真誠地分享他們所求的事物，那就坦誠以對。
如果一個人因為你傾聽他們的抱怨而感到被愛，而你卻已經聽膩了他們的抱怨，那就隨他們去對你的愛做出批判吧。你知道你愛他們。上帝知道你愛他們，這樣就夠了。
如果一個人因為你同意他們是受害者而感到被愛，而你又無法打從心裡同意這一點，那就聆聽、保持沉默、說些親切、誠實且中立的話，或者避開他們。你知道你愛。上帝知道你愛。這樣就夠了。
在所有情況下，盡量避免批判，因為每個人都在根據他們當前的心態、信念、制約和環境，竭盡所能地成長。你不需要為他人的選擇去彌補。你依然可以過自己的生活，心中保有喜悅，即使其他人做出不同的選擇。即使和你同住的人不健康，你依然可以保持健康。你不需要把每一分錢都分給那些擁抱匱乏的人，依然可以過著豐盛的生活。
帶著滿溢的心去給予。分享那些對你而言能真誠帶來喜悅的事物。然後，親愛的朋友們，你們將在指引下給予，同時也允許人們去體驗他們自己選擇的結果。你們不需要為那些不做你們所做功課的人受苦。在你們更快樂的空間裡，你們可以提升他們。就像我們經常說的，我們寧願有一個人在光明中，也不願兩個人在黑暗中。
讓每個人成為他們需要成為的人。邀請他們嘗試對你有效的方法。溫柔地展示一種快樂、健康、提升的生活，在不強求的情況下激發他人的靈感。但在所有情況下，愛他們本來的樣子、愛他們所在的狀態。並且愛自己足夠多，去成為真正的你。
上帝保佑你們！我們非常非常愛你們。
—— 天使
Message from the Angels: When others can’t receive… Just love
Channel: Ann Albers | Source
My dear friends, we love you so very much,
Each of you on this list has a heart that cares, a mind that wants solutions, and a spirit that loves to be of service to others. We are not speaking of martyrdom, or the kind of service that requires you to put aside your own heart, but rather the kind of service in which your joyful, caring, shining light becomes an inspiration and a guide for others.
With your confident belief in another, you can help ignite their own confidence.
With your unconditional love, you can inspire them to find ways to love themselves more.
With your willingness to experience and explore what gives you joy, you implicitly give them permission to do the same.
When you share what works in your own life, you demonstrate options that might work in theirs.
Each time you allow yourself to be happy, healthy, connected, or abundant, you stand as a role model for what is possible. You become an inspiration. When you share what works in your own life, you invite others to try your methods or mindset to see what works in their own lives. When you invite your angels to help and help comes, you demonstrate that we exist and we care.
The hardest thing for you all—dear sensitive souls—is wanting to help another who doesn’t want your help, or doesn’t want help in the way you can authentically offer it.
You see a person suffering from physical challenges and know a diet, an exercise, or a healing professional who can almost certainly help them, but they want nothing to do with these things.
You watch someone struggle in their own lives, and you know how much easier yours has become through manifesting, praying, or calling on your angels, but they have no interest in these things.
You see someone as capable, strong, or smart enough to do what they want, but nothing you say can convince them of their abilities.
You see someone struggle with self-fulfilling negative processes. You try to give them pep talks, examples, processes, books, healers, but they insist life or others are the problem.
So many of you have run into these circumstances when, in spite of your best intentions to help, your wisdom, experience, or understanding, another person wants none of what you have to offer. You may have experienced rejection, mockery, or even anger when, with the best of intentions, you’ve insisted you had the answers to their challenges.
Maybe you did.
But if someone does not want what you have to offer, dear friends, you have to accept that they have their own path, their own lessons, their own choices, and their own creations. They will learn the way they want to learn. You can kindly invite them to try your mindset, methods, practitioners, books, etc., but consider it an invitation only. Speak with love. Speak with respect for their journey. “I don’t know if this resonates with you, but when I have this challenge, this has helped me. If you’d like more information, I’m glad to help.” Speak from your own heart, but make the offer an invitation—not a proclamation about what they should do.
There is not a single one of you upon the earth who wants to be told what to do if you haven’t asked :) But most of you are willing to listen to suggestions if they are offered with love. You are willing to weigh them against your own feelings to see if they resonate with you.
Others do too. If what you offer does not resonate with a person’s beliefs, willingness, or worthiness, it won’t work for them no matter how persuasive you try to be. They must believe a practice could work. They must believe they have angels that love them, or at least be willing to test us out, for them to accept our gifts. They must believe they have some control over their life, or even want to believe it, before they will give up victimized thinking. And if you try to make them adopt methods, mindsets, or practices before they are ready to embrace them, even the best of these ideas will not work.
If you want to help those who reject your suggestions, just love them. Love them as they are.
You may not like the fact that someone complains and does nothing about it. That’s ok. You don’t have to listen. Love them as you would a child who feels powerless. Don’t take their complaints so seriously. Get them a cup of soup and soothe them when you genuinely feel like doing so, and when you don’t, tune out or tell them you don’t know what to say. You may be frustrated with someone who has physical problems and does nothing to change. Love them anyway. They may be afraid. Maybe no one helped them feel confident with change. You can treat them kindly. Maybe you can make them treats within their dietary restrictions. If they need exercise, you can walk with them if they’re willing, and if not, let them sit.
Even when it comes to us, dear friends, many who have been disappointed by humans expect us to behave the same way. As a result, we have limited influence in their lives. Some do not believe in our love. Some want to prove to themselves they can achieve their own results. Some would never admit it, but they don’t feel worthy of help. Some are what you call “control freaks,” and that’s ok. Some are living out a reality that began in childhood—”no one helped them then and no one will now.” They have become so strongly identified with being unloved that it is hard to believe anyone would or could love them as we do.
In all of these cases, pushing these individuals to work with us is not loving. Loving them in a way they can receive it is. And if you cannot authentically share what they are asking for, be honest.
If a person feels loved when you listen to their complaints, and you are tired of listening to their complaints, then let them have their judgments about your love. You know you love them. God knows you love them, and that is enough.
If a person feels loved when you agree that they are a victim and you can’t honestly agree with this, listen, remain silent, say something kind, honest, and neutral, or avoid them. You know you love. God knows you love. That is enough.
In all cases, do your best to avoid judgment, because everyone is doing their best to grow given their current mindset, beliefs, conditioning, and circumstances. You do not have to make up for others’ choices. You can still make your own. You can still have a happy life and joy in your heart even if others choose differently. You can still be healthy even if those you live with are not. You can still be abundant without having to share every dime with those who embrace lack.
Give from a full heart. Share what is authentically joyful for you to share. And then, dear ones, you will give as guided and allow people to experience the results of their choices as well. You need not suffer for those who don’t do the work you have done. In your happier space, you can lift them. As we say often, we’d rather have one in the light than two in the dark 
Let people be who they need to be. Invite them to try what works for you. Gently demonstrate a happy, healthy, elevated life that inspires others without pushing. But in all cases, love them as they are, where they are at. And love yourselves enough to be you too.
God Bless You! We love you so very much.
— The Angels
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